Tuesday, August 16, 2011

It seems my boyfriend doesn't trust me?

I have to answer your question with another question. Have you ever done something to him that would make him not trust you? Now I don't mean something like for april fools day one year you pulled a prank on him that made him **** his pants. I mean somthing significant that has caused him, to have for some reason not to trust you. If you have then that's a little tricky because it takes time to build that trust back. If you havn't then their's no excuse for what he's doing. He's most likely insecure about something. Maybe he thinks your to good for him. Maybe he thinks that your realtionship is so good that it's to good to be true and he looks for excuses to why it's not. I'm not sure I don't know you or him. But here is what I do know. You need to sit him down camly and relaxed and talk to him. A good idea would be to one night make a him his favorite meal for dinner. Have a gl of wine or two(no more then that because this is the type of conversation that you don't wanna have sloppy drunk. Hahaha) to have the both of relaxed and afterwards just talk about it. Tell him how you feel and make sure he tells you have he feels. Remember communication is the most important part of any relationship

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